Try other sexual positions. The sitting positions for example are amongst the best energy sharing positions. They are ideal when you have built a high sexual charge and want to move less, but feel more. In most sitting positions there is less thrusting and less movement, with the exception of occasional, active rocking action. Face each other, make eye contact and hold each other tight. Your hands are free to stimulate your partner's breasts.
Use your hands, feet, hair or your whole body to touch your partner and tantalize each other with different textures - feathers, silk, fur and flowers. These are so many ways to touch your lover for an erotic awakening. The only limits are your imagination.
Previous Experience
Have a sexy conversation with your partner. Share your sexual fantasy you have most often or find most arousing. Bring up previous sexual encounters both of you found especially memorable, a sort of replay of your own greatest hits. Describe a scintillating sex scene from a movie, or read one aloud from a book. Conversational intimacy leads to physical intimacy, because it stimulates the primary sex organ - the brain. It is really amazing how arousing talking about sex can be.
Live A Healthy And Fulfilling Sex Lives
The key to a great sex life is not just about the various techniques that we do in bed or in the kitchen, but rather what is going on in our minds, often without our clear awareness, while we are engaged in sexual behavior. Imagine being in bed with the most attractive, gorgeous and sexually desirable person you know. If your mind does not cooperate - because of worries about work, because you are self-conscious about your body, the sex is not going to be great.
Far from being dangerous, sex is good for us, physically and emotionally. Feeling and acting sexual is not itself dangerous. For health reasons alone, it pays to invest time, energy and thought into having a satisfying sexual relationship. The health and psychological benefits you stand to gain make it well worth neglecting your housework, missing your favorite NBA game or foregoing the occasional poker game.
Sex is a whole lot more than intercourse. There is setting the scene, creating harmony of minds and hearts, arousing your senses and awakening your desire. It is the man's role to excite and stimulate his lady, to pay attention to her emotional state and make sure she is "overcome with love and desire" before you proceed to intercourse.
